"How to seduce a man" is a question that you may have asked yourself if you are in a relationship or are starting one with your 'crush'? Well, be that as it may, we already warned you: there is no manual. Yes, it is true that, due to the education we have received, different effective seduction patterns can be found for different genders, but today we have evolved enough to understand that each person is a universe and gender does not matter (already whether binary, non-binary, trans, fluent...) to determine, among a million other things, how to seduce someone.
That said, there are several aspects that could be highlighted, depending on various nuances, when it comes to seducing a man, especially in bed. "Expanding your sexual repertoire brings with it more benefits than impressing your partner or reaching orgasm" -says sexologist Laura Beltrán-, because it is also the way to increase your security in bed and exploring together will feed your intimacy and satisfaction" In any case, if you want to know several tricks focused on this area, take note and execute, even if it's just to try, you don't lose anything!
TRICKS TO SEDUCE A MAN
A different oral sex
To make a different nod to the matter, it is best to introduce games in bed. Sexologist Olivia Cantolla suggests: "Massage his testicles with proper lubricants, wrap them loosely in kitchen cling film, place your mouth over the area and move your tongue over it."
The plastic, added to the movements of your lips, will raise his sexual thermostat and that can create an even more intense erection. "The increase in temperature causes the blood vessels to dilate, and causes greater blood circulation to the penis," adds Dr. Alfredo Sarabia, urologist.
Hit the missionary reimagined
One of the classic kamasutra positions is missionary, but do you want to seduce a man to the fullest? With your partner on top of you, he brings his legs together as he penetrates you, so that your lower extremities are enclosed between his. "In this way, he will rub your clitoris with greater intensity and it will make things easier for you if your boy has a smaller penis, both of you will feel the penetration a little more," says Bárbara Fuentes, a sexologist.
Join your point P
You already know that you are doing your partner a favor if you massage the perineum (that space of skin between his testicles and the anus), but you may not know that you also have your little P dot.
"Many women are excited by clitoral stimulation, but they may not know that the clitoris is somewhat larger than the 'bulge' that we see on the outside," says Ana de Juan, a gynecologist.
If we stretch the perineum (between the vagina and the anus), the skin that covers the clitoris will retract. Sit linked by the legs, join your pelvis and arch your back. This will allow your genitals to rub together while stretching that sensitive piece of skin. You will enjoy both to the fullest!
Synchronize the vibrator
Grab your favorite vibrator and place it on her perineum. Sexologist Laura Beltrán suggests: "To begin with, excite him by masturbating him with your hand, turn on the vibrator at minimum power and place it just behind his testicles, firmly squeezing the perineum. If you think he can handle it, increase the power of the vibrator as that you increase the speed with which you masturbate him".
the reverse puppy
Another of the most famous kamasutra postures is the puppy posture. It is the second favorite position among men because it is primitive and perfect for a 'quick fuck', but maybe you want to know a sexual trick that will make it a wonder for both of you. Start in classic puppy pose, but lower your torso until your head rests on one of your arms.
That way, your other hand will be free and you can grab the base of his penis while he penetrates you. This modification has erotic bonuses: "His penis enters in a different direction than the natural curve of your vagina and that increases the friction of the member," says Beltran.
Also, "the pressure of his penis on the back of your vagina causes some anal stimulation that many women find super exciting. You will also avoid the discomfort that often accompanies this sexual position," adds gynecologist Ana de Juan. In this position, the cervix is further away, so he is much less likely to hit it during sex, especially if he has a long member.
